What's the deal with the Father Figure in a person's Psychology?

aAa~A father really doesn't have anything to do with weather any ones an asshole or not! How could it if he isn't around to be ANY kind of influence.You are who u are cause that's your choice,there may be some traits of ur father because of genetics & what u may have gotten use to seeing him do,but that can be from anybody u copy.You make the decisions on what YOU are like not him.We are not our fathers,we are individuals as in separate.If ppl would listen to whats in their hearts & souls in just good common sense things would not be so difficult 4 them.