She wants to take it slow.?

From a female perspective, we are very complex. She is just confused as to what exactly she wants to happen. With her telling you to take it slow, she doesn't want to rush into anything she'll regret or into something that was never meant to be. So, to answer your question, take it slow like she's asking. Keep playing the friendly role and show her that YOU care for HER feelings and that you wouldn't do anything to upset her. I suggest just going the "dating" route with an agreement to not see other people for a little bit and if you two decide that you really like one another, then you can enter into a relationship. Just don't push her to make a decision, she'll run. Just go with the flow and take it slow. If it's meant to be, it'll happen. Just like the intimate stuff, if she wants to, I'm sure she will make it apparent. :) Best of luck!