Religious conundrum (Christian)?

Your argument is supposedly based on logic, which you cannot account for. Without absolute (universal, unchanging, immaterial) laws of logic you have no basis for rational thought or discussion, and without God you have no basis for absolute laws.

My bfs going to Ibiza on a lads hol?

Im 19 and he will turn 21 on holiday , his going with ten lads and he is due to go in 3 weeks , we have been together a year on and off , i love him so much , i never had reason not to trust him b4 but im sooo scared his gonna cheat i cant sleep or eat i feel like i will have a break down when his away , i been hurt badly before , i just cant see how he wont cheat when all these hot girls are around throwing it about and under the influence of alchol , please help me i need advice what do i do? His the guy i know i wanna spend my life with

What is Tunisia like for a holiday? Good and bad points?

Yeh its a great place to go depending on where you go. When i went i was near Suisse (on the east coast), it was awesome. I went in May and it was quite hot. But all the war stuff going on with Tunisia and Egypt can't be good. Also a great place to visit is the Sahara desert. You can get an old train that goes all the way down there and you can ride a camel which was quite fun, but a little bit uncomfortable. The beeches are great, but alot of them are nude beeches so a lot of the women are topless. But overall great place, great food you'll love it.

Badly need help with blue/white mtg deck?

Im running a Blue/White deck. Alot of Blue counters and mostly white flyers and enchants. Im looking for good blue creature spell to add in. I was looking at adding 4 Conundrum Sphinx but i have no way to scry in my deck for its special ability. It is still a 4/4 flyer for only 4 mana. Or i was thinking about adding 4 Phantom Warriors a 2/2 creature that is unblockable and 3 mana cost instead. If you have any better suggestions or can help me choose it would be most appreciated.

[Magic: The Gathering] Is this an ok Blue deck?

I will tell you now that it is not tournament legal. It isnt very good at all either. When making a good deck you need to add 4 copies of the good cards and none of the bad ones. As of now, 80% of the cards in this deck are bad.

So.. Who would you room with out of these two possible roommates?

Neither. They're both trash, and it's best to not associate with trash. Get better friends/acquaintences.

Self loathing and self harm.. is seeking help the right thing to do?

Seeking counciling and perhaps drug therapy should be a consideration. A talk therapist is the first place to go. The human mind is incredible as it can convince itself of anything. Yours has convinced itself of some things that are not in your best interest. Just as you can have a struggle with another so too can you have a struggle with yourself. You're going to need someone to help you with that. you can't fight yourself and win.

Baby shower with number four?

I am pregnant with my fourth child, and am facing a conundrum of sorts. With my first pregnancy, I didn't have a baby shower. I kept expecting someone to suggest one, but no one did! I didn't want to ask for one myself; it seemed rude, so I just didn't have one. My mother in law later told me she expected my parents to throw me one and was waiting for them to invite her, and my parents said the same thing of her! Lol. (She can a bit overbearing and does tend to take over with things like that.) The second time around everyone felt guilty and threw me a huge joint shower where we got so much stuff it was insane. We were having a second boy, and had all the big items we needed, so it felt pointless, though I thoroughly enjoyed it! I actually turned down a shower with my third boy, as we had everything we needed, and instead we hosted a "meet and greet" after the baby was born where we invited people over at specific intervals throughout the day so they could see the new baby and bring gifts if they wanted, but didn't feel pressured by the thought that other people would be there with gifts. (good thing, since he was actually a very large she! People were able to bring over gifts appropriate for her gender and size!) After she was born, we decided to wait several years before having another, and with limited storage space, we gave away all our baby stuff. So imagine my surprise when here we are, a year later, with another baby on the way. We no longer have a swing, car seat, bouncer, etc. etc. I don't want to ask for a baby shower, but we are not financially set to repurchase all those things we gave away! Would it be rude to host a shower or ask for money myself? Should I hint at it to my MIL or parents? Or should I just suck it up and deal with my own mistake?

Can someone give me advice on starting a new career/life?

So I'm kind of stuck in a bit of a rut and I keep playing mind games with myself about how I will never have a good life with the degree I earned. While I was attending school I tended to find myself trying to have fun more so than hitting the books and really learning about my major. I did party a lot but managed to get a 3.1 gpa and a degree in sport and entertainment management in 4 years from the U of South Carolina. But after I attained my degree is when reality struck and I realized that I was stuck with my career choice. In completing my degree we had to do 2 internships in order to network ourselves into our career field. Like a dumb *** I chose the good ole YMCA and it's lucrative careers.....(sarcasm). So now I'm stuck with a degree I dislike and no good connections. It's been a year since I graduated and I'm working s**t job's to pay my car insurance so my parents don't kick me out of the house. I'm basically stuck in a conundrum because I hate living in small town SC where there are no girls (never been on a date), no good friends that aren't married, and no good career paths. Basically I don't fit in here with all of the uneducated rednecks that I'm surrounded by but I can't get a decent paying job or a job that I may like to get me out of here because of my major. Is there hope for me in finding a good job outside of my field? Please don't tell me to go military because I've already weighed that option in my mind for a few months and decided not to pursue it. I also have a tough time leaving my parents behind and my ailing grandmother who is suffering the late stages of Parkinson's. How can I get out of here to the west coast or somewhere that people are actually relatively chill and friendly? I need all of the help I can get on this matter as it is about to drive me into depression/anger fits if it doesn't change soon.

I think I'm borderline or maybe just going insane?

you got to put some time aside for relaxation , try to put it into perspective although life isn't good you are rationalising about your condition and so it is a step forward . keep your studies going they are important no matter if it is easy then put more work in research , it will benefit you long term . good luck . your interest in the spiritual is interesting and there are people out there with similar outlook try a church but nothing too conservative somewhere relaxed .

America only looks out for america only when they are threatened do they stand to be counted why?

they let millions die with no regard for europe in world war two claiming they were preventing a world war then pearl harbour occured and they had no problem destroying parts of japan with nucleur war killing innocent people and destroying the land and people suffer innocent children and women where were the rules of war there they would not help when hitler was geting started in his main power seat in the late 1930,s and early 1940,s why does america a superpower only help when it suits them despite the fact that the americans are mostly europeans migrated britain made many mistakes then but at least they took the chance to attack

Opinions and thoughts on whether I should keep putting fingers to keys?

I like it =) the name Andrea however, does not appeal to me in this situation. I associate Andrea with a feminine, classic, very polite girl, but I do like that you gave her the name Andie to pass it off. You need to do a little editing first off, a few misplaced words, a few forgotten ones, and a couple of needed commas. When reading this you tend to tell rather than show, I'm sure you know what that means. You explain everyone in detail about how they look rather than allowing little bits of them to shine through. Other than that, I like it, a little dark for my taste and vampires are overdone but you're going somewhere. Keep those fingers on the keyboard.

Can someone help me with my depressive problems?

If you were going to get a reasonable answer tpo any of this it probably won't be from people who roam the anthropology questions since this isn't an anthropology question. Perhaps you would do better posting it to psychology

A question for religious social conservatives?

The bible does say that GOD created Adam and Eve, to start the human race, if it were left up to Adam and Willy, we might not all have made it here. LOL.

How do I remind people who are oblivious to my religious practices?

find a Catholic one to work at..... we have Sedar dinners yearly and everything as Judaism is part of our heritage. since that's probably not easy just start educating them slowly. i would bring in your own cookies or treats once in a while that you CAN eat and share with them how they are kosher.

Weight loss conundrum?

Its possible you're gaining muscle faster than burning fat, in fact, that will almost always happen when starting a new workout regime after not having done much before. Depending on the weight lifting exercises, you may want to tone down on the weights, be it less often or lighter weights and focus more on the cardio. All in all though, you need to have muscle to burn fat. The more muscle you have, the more fat is burned off. So, cutting strictly to a cardio workout, may not help as much as it sounds.

How to manage time between Academics and Job? Please, please help?

That is only a 12 hour day, not bad at all. PLUS you are taking breaks for lunch and dinner, so it is really only a 10 hour day. My husband has worked 12 to 14 hours every single day of his life (as a surgeon) and does not eat until after that. I know many businessmen who also work 12 hour days pretty much every day of their life, no breaks for meals and showers. My neighbor works 12 hours plus the commute 6 days a week for as long as I have known him. This is what we, in the real world, call "life". You are lucky to have a job, many people would dream of having a job and also an opportunity for school. So, you are very fortunate, you should be grateful.

Does God Hate Humanity?

It certainly seems like it. He killed everyone in that flood apparently. And you may say everyone sinned but what about all the innocent babies and children who didn't have the capacity to understand these things or all the innocent animals! There's no excuse. And then why bother creating humanity in the first place? Is he mentally not right or what?

Am I a whore???????????????

I'm not gonna judge you, but that seems quite mature and physical for your age. Also, its not like you were intimate with just one guy who was your bf. I would slow down, girl :) You'll have plenty of tiem for that stuff in the future.

What should I do about this boy situation?

That's the problem with texting, you didn't know he was shy. Take the bull by the horns and make a move.

I slept with a girl who a month later told me she was having a baby and it was mine, what do i do?

Ok this is it, back in august last year around the end I met a girl on a night out, exchanged numbers etc. We met up the week after and the week after that, slept together, she told me she was on the pill the second time in the morning she said she wasnt on the pill so itold her to get a morning after pill.A month later she txts me sayin is having a baby and its mine. At the timeI had met someone else who I had started a relationship with. I knew the best thing was to be there for the baby. I stayed with my current girlfriend though. I wasnt allowed to any of the scans, hospital appointments, and after xmas mid january i recieved an email stating the baby wasnt mine it was someone she slept with about 2 weeks b4 me on holiday, and she wanted me to be a father to it, as she liked me. I rang up her father who told me he was ashamed, they told me to move on. she is apparently due on the 15 may, cud be earlier? and she was on hol to the 7th aug, wen did she concieve? what shall i do?

Which degree/school should I go for?

Stick to Liberty, family , job and team. It provides you already with the timetable you CAN cope with at the present time. Talking from my experience, I ended up hating the course because I thought Uni was the best way to go. I was mistaken. After finishing Uni some people like myself were struggling to find a job and some friends from town were taking over Uni graduates for the mere fact that they had a 'bit of experience' doing the job... and some qualification. They were chosen not because they had the 'flare' from attending Uni on the first place. Experience comes first ALWAYS.

Why do some people seem innocent and when you get to know them they are so not innocent?

People are often very different once you get to know them. Also most people are on their best behaviour at first so they are unlikely to show a naughty side in case they get judged.

Double Major in Bioengineering and Mechanical Engineering?

I think the second bachelors in engineering would take at least 30 semester hours.. Get the versatile mechanical degree first, get a job, then pursue anything else that interests you.

Parents won't let me have a facebook?

same problem but my parents are telling that its not yet age all my friends have and some people who are younger than me also have don't know what to do

Role-Playing and Writing?

I am not a witer; I don't write novels, shorty stories or poems. If I do role play, it doesn't follow I am a writer.

Can you help me with this please?

ask him to meet him in person, he probably felt weird to text you first and was waiting for you to text him, some people are like that, he may think if your dont text first your losing interest, just like you are feeling, but he is obviously interested, go on a date :)

Would you sue someone if they put ex lax in your food?

It would probably be hard to prove, instead talk to his company about what happened and suggest they set up a fund to help out your family !

Keyhole surgery on ankle?

iv been told i may need this and im worried in might mean i need to change the family holiday, the physio says my range is good but there is something not right (they seemed to concentrate on the front) im in the army and she says 3 mounth before im good as new but i fogot to ask hol long till im walking does any one have any idea, i know its dificult online but if any one has had it and how long it took them

My parents have been abusing me, what do i do. Please help.?

Ok so my parent are crazy as **** and it pisses me off. My moms a ***** and if anyone contradicts her thoughts or goes agaist her, she explodes and starts trying to beat me, i stop her by grabbing her arms and telling her to stop( i dont put her any weird hol im just stronger so i can keep her from hitting me) but when i do that my dad (who stronger than me) freaks out, goes crazy and like tackles me and sht and choking me. Now they wat to move to europe. I want to know what to do for the state to take me from them, or for something to be doe so that no one lets me board an international flight.

Would someone be kind enough to explain the "love thy enemies" concept?

Granny simply can't wrap her head around it. I've been sending up a slew of imprecatory prayers aimed at my yardman, Fernando, ever since he slammed the back door, causing my chocolate cake to fall! How can I love him when he ruined one of my beautiful cakes? I may need two fingers of my home-brewed tonic to help me get past this conundrum! Help me, Jesus!

Why do people love each other more when apart?

Me and my lady only get to spend time together once every now and then and now we don't even know the next time we'll see each other. Its driving me crazy because we both love each other greatly so more were away from each the more intense and passionate the love becomes. Ever since i meet her she has completely changed me and i want to give her everything beyond what a man can give a woman.We see a future together and want to lose our virginity's to each other. She is innocent, loving, and caring and i'm passionate, intimate, loving, and caring. We think and dream about other and the moments that we spend together are heavenly but why is this so intense when far apart?

Riddle me this WORLD?

I have a conundrum that I am perplexed by. Altitude is fixed by Longitude and Latitude, Coperinicus was Vespucci's hero why would Captain Cook get so confused by Peter Pans Hook?

My first love broke up with me suddenly. Need advice what to do now?

You need to start building your confidence. As much as I hate to tell you ? I think she moved on. She was dishonest with you and that is not acceptable. If your hair is thinning ? Shave your head and get a new look. Dress a bit different and start looking at other girls. Many men's hair thin, nothing wrong with this. In time you will forget her. She needs to reimburse your money !

A guy described me a innocent?

Him and his friends were talking about how they smoke and I said how I smoked once and they all acted so surprised. And when I asked why they said that i'm too innocent! I was kind of offended but then the guy was like, 'No, that's a good thing!' I mean, would you take that as a compliment?

Does it make a difference if the Catholic school is Publicly funded?

Despite the Canadian flag below your question, I guess some of us forgot that Canada isn't the same as the US.

Had a beard trimming accident. Are goatees still 'hip'?

Hip or not,for better or worse,I have one,although I shave it off every week or so,my facial hair grows into a goatee naturally,I don't have to trim it into shape.

The casey anthony trial any theories?

the only theory" other than casey did it" , that fits is LEE her brother did it! think about it , on his testimony very very jealous of the baby kay lee , and before that was jealous of casey , he lived in the home where the pc searches of how to make chloroform was look up 84 times , he owned the car before casey did , so he could have kept a key, he was in position to know caseys daily habits, so what if casey was giving cay lee something to make her sleep , and leaving her locked in the trunk or back seat of her car , lee knows this so he checks chloroform out on the INTERNET , he waits till casey is in the club, and cay lee is asleep in the locked car , lee unlocks the car , uses chloroform on the sleeping cay lee till she stops breathing , he removes all trace of him being in the car , he re locks the car leaving cay lee dead waiting to be found , by casey who would totally think she had given cay lee too much of what ever she was using to make her sleep and killed her and all that followed was her trying to cover up the fact that she had killed her daughter, mean while lee has gotten rid of his competition for his parents affection cay lee dead and casey in jail for murder. however this doesn't mean casey is innocent she should still go to jail for life

We met 9 months ago...what u think of this?

I met him 9 months ago on holiday and we had a thing. We live 4 hours apart.he’s 23 and i’m 20. He took my nmber when on holiday but on the last day i was abit down about something so we didnt talk. Anyway 2 months later i found him and hs friends on fb and he’s been talking to me on chat ever since. Although in those 2 months where it seemed we’d never see each other again he started seeing a girl who was the friend of the reps sister on holiday but it seems they stopped talking around about the time i got in contact again. Anyway i had to go near where he lives for a placement interview and he met up wth me, went out withhis friends, stayed the night with me and the wentt his to chill and baught me lunch next day. Anyway i’m going there again for the placement next week he said we’d have to meet up so we’re going to. I know u cant really tel what someones doing all the time buteve his friends say he’s not a slag. Do u think he likes me? It’s just i was thinking why would a guy that i met on hol, lives 4 hours away from me still talk to me 9 months on let alone see me again!

Is webcam sex bad for a 17 year old?

I'm turning 17 really soon.I've always appear to be nice and innocent, good at schoolwork...but secretly I have sexual thoughts which haunt me.So I did webcam sex with a guy.It felt good when I was doing it, but afterwards I feel dirty inside.I can't believe what I did last night.I'm going crazy! What should I　ｄｏ？

What would you do if someone took your laundry?

and ripped it up,put lipstick on it or just threw it on the floor. the reason im asking this is because when i went to the laundry a while back,this women had a row of free machines but choose to use the one that was next to where this other women was putting her clothes in. the innocent women put her clothes in the other womens machine (but the crazy women just opened the door and walked away)when she saw it was being used she looked like she was about to rip the other womens head off.luckily the nice lady took her clothes and went to the other side i think she was scared that the other lady would open her machine and throw her clothes or something.so what would you do? should that lady have stayed there and stand her ground until the manager broke them up?or walk away ?

My frieds gave me her Facebook password ?

Lol I didn't understand one bit of it :PP but your friend gave you her password? If I were you, I would just look through her profile, nothing stalkerish or anything, just look at her profile for the fun of it(; I would!

Settle but sexy traits in a girl?

I am a seventeen year old girl that is always referred to as 'innocent', or 'bambi-like', and while I really do like that in myself, I like a guy and we are hanging out today. I am wearing a black tanktop with a highwaisted black floral scrunchy skirt, with black ballet flats. Is there anything I can do to make myself look a little bit more sexy? I have been told that I have curly 'sex hair', but other than putting a bit of shiny poder on my collarbone, I don't know what to do. I do not wear slutty clothes, so please don't suggest that. I'm as virginal as virgin gets. He's an artsy kid that looks like Andrew Vanwyngarden, and he hates 'hipster' kids.

Double Major in Bioengineering and Mechanical Engineering?

I think the second bachelors in engineering would take at least 30 semester hours.. Get the versatile mechanical degree first, get a job, then pursue anything else that interests you.

In the end , What do Guys prefer and end up marrying ?!?

so ive always wondered why alot of teenege males tend to go for the sluttly easy girl , but wonder who they end up marrying in the future the slutty girl who didnt have self respect for herself or the innocent true to her morals woman? what do you Male opinionate and think about that??

My ex girlfriend contacted me after 2 months, need advice what to do now?

She probably wanted to have a fling to see if he could pick up where she left off with the ex. I would just ignore her. Time to move on, she did it one time and will probably do it again if she has anyone else show an interest in her. It's not worth the hurt.

Do i need a visa for cuba?

I am a uk national going on hol to cuba for two weeks and tho i have a passport i have read that i need a visa also but have only about a month before i travel. I asked at the travel agents where the hol was booked and they said not to worry i get a 'tourist card' with my tickets.. grateful if anyone can help...

No cell-phones while driving! But what about drinking coffee and applying make-up?

It's about driving responsibly. I try not to do things that distract me while driving because I don't want to hurt someone else or myself for something that could have waited until i was stopped. I don't answer the phone while I'm driving either be ause not everything that is important is urgent. And if I am dead what did it accomish anyway. Every cell phone has voice mail and caller ID so whats the rush?

Geology or Electrical Engineering future path?

Now I know that the first thing you guys are gonna say is go with what interests me, but here is the real conundrum: I like technology and I also like outdoors. But that doesn't matter. So to clear that right now, I am gonna say that, if the pros of working as an Electrical engineer outweigh the pros of working as a geologist, I can give up working outdoors. My second question is that do i really need a master's in geology to get a job these days. I really don't wanna study another 2-3 years after my bachelor's. (I don't think electrical engineers need master's to get a job these days.) 3rd question is that which has more job prospects, job security and less cyclical demand for that profession. Any other Pros and Cons suggested by u guys for each profession would be immensely appreciated.

Did you doubt that Germany claims they have no weapons?

Trying to locate some data source for this graph was impossible. There has to be something the composer was keying to, since we know Germany has one of the best tanks in the world, a crack anti-terrorist Unit and a superb Fighter Jet. What would they be lying about ? Nuclear ? No, because they have some 100,000 U.S. Forces and other Units stationed there and if they did exist, we would have control of them. This remains a mysterious collection of Data.

What's your favorite animal?

Mine would be... Either the harp seal or the artic fox. The harp seal looks so innocent and cozy while the artic fox is swift and kind of strong.

Is it normal for your college lecture to flirt with you?

He touched my shoulder and commented on what I was wearing? I think it was innocent, and I normally don't mind having an innocent flirt with men, even older men, but is this wrong because of who he is?

How to solve this riddle/conundrum?

He told them he was going to take their clothes from them. If they said "Impossible", then he would get to take the clothes. But they believed him, and therefore they had to give him the clothes, so he wouldn't be a liar.

Why are ******* so evil?

They're always rolling in their gangs and eating KFC and watermelon, and drinking Kool-Aid! Plus, they shoot innocent white people! What can we do to rid the world of these evil "things"? They should be exterminated! And Africa should be nuked.

Pathetic question - I've liked the same girl my entire life?

You are like every other human being that doesn't want to let out feelings...and there's a lot of them. I'm going to make this simple and to the point since your a psychiatrist. What is worse...never telling this girl your feelings forever and having her marry some other guy or be with someone else and living with that everyday for the rest of your life! Or telling her those feelings in the best way possible that wouldn't press on her hard and stress her out...and possibly facing rejection. In my opinion, you can live with rejection...grow out of rejection and forget about it, but you can never forget the guilt and terrible feelings you'll have by not letting her know. Yeah your losing a friend if the very worst happens...but theres just so much more to gain and that risk is nessecary. If it works out you'll be one of the happiest guys in the world and you and i both know that. All this stress will be gone and you'll have your perfect woman that is so hard to find. Go for the risk...

Why do people respect police officers because of their jobs.. y is there a double standard for police officers?

The media only makes it look like people care because they're held in high reguards to the community. I personally wouldn't give two shits if a cop died here. Dont know anybody who would.

Depressive problems no one will answer! can U pleaase read this!?

i had some what the same problem when i was young. then one day while sitting alone i had a thought out of nowhere. i thought why should i feel like this just because of what i thought others were thinking. you see i thought i was quite ugly so i hated girls and the world because i couldn't talk to them . i decided from now on i will hold my head up and look people in the eye when i talk to them if they don't like it then it's their loss . today i am very outgoing and i don't have that problem anymore . so try it worked for me.

My bfs going to Ibiza on a lads hol?

Sit him down and talk to him,its perfectly natural for you to feel like this with him going away, but your going to have to relax and trust him,that's all you can do.

Shouldn't the U.S.'s new brilliantly designed food pyramid -"the plates" have included Nutella & peanut butter?

Go, Christie, go Christie! Yum yum, Nutella, mashed potatoes and gravy, cheesecake, and fried foods. Can't wait! Just kidding!

How can i convince her im telling the truth?

if she trusts u then that should be enough to convince her. just let her be - and she'll soon realise the truth

UK : If giving the vote to prisoners makes David Cameron physically sick ; Criminals in the House of Lords?

It amazes me how they seem to put their own dirty cheap criminal activity into an entirely different category. They don't call themselves thieves when they are caught stealing, they just admit to having been "badly advised"..... But look at the British people, they are so sickeningly servile. They have put up with this parasite parliament for ever!.....Nothing that comes out of that filthy toilet seems to rally the people to action, yet there are more criminals in parliament than we will ever have in our prisons. It has become so bad now that parliament has become the but of all the worlds jokes, like when the U.N hold a huge function and a British MP is going to be there, the staff are instructed to count the silver before the end of the evening. These thieves and embezzlers actually represent this country. No wonder the British are so hated and despised around the world.

Holiday suggestions - cheap and cheerful couples hol?

i would like to take my boyfriend away for for 3 or 4 nights around the 13th June. Somewhere sunny, preferably with things to do so (not just lying on sun loungers). Looking for somehwere cheap and cheerful flying from Newcastle/Teesside. Any suggestions? Thanks

Where was Come Dine With Me two nights ago?Was it in Essex?

It had a woman with black hair who kept uncontrollably giggling all the time,a blonde women,and 2 fellas.Can anyone help solve my conundrum?

Blah..I don't know what to do..help?

Try to tell him that you dont mind he smokes bud but it bothers you that your not getting enough attention and appreciation as you should/like.

Best way to politely refuse a date?

I think that you should go but tell him that you can feel a little insecure so he is the one who has to cope with the situation! You will go there because of him, no matter you like him or not so I think that he will do his best to make you feel comfortable! Take this opportunity.. it is some kind of testing because after this you will know how to continue your relationship!

What do you think of my poem?

yeah its pretty good on a scale of 1-10 1 being bad 10 being awesome. id give you a 7 roughly. my favorite part was when it says silence was her most trustworthy companion. but i didnt like the question why strange child? & the weekend question. no offense but you had a back then feeling & then with those lines it kind of brought back the present which is not bad but ruins it all try using a differnt vocabulary. poems are supposed to be things that make people think & wonder what they mean not be so detailed & explained. im sorry for the criticizim but i want you to get better. good luck! i hope you continue to write!!!

Older male cat problems? Please help!!!?

I recently brought home a small male kitten, he's friendly and curious and he is in no way hard to handle. Problem is, there is a previously wild adult male cat already living in my home and he refuses to accept the new kitten. I brought them together to test the older cat's response, and he began hissing and deeply growling at my new kitten. It scares me to leave them alone together, so I have to consider giving my new kitten away. I just hope I have other options, I want that to be a last resort. Older male is house trained, neutered, and has lived in the house for around a year. So far he has been the only cat in the house along with 3 very large german shepherds. Please, if you can, I need ideas and hopefully a solution to my conundrum. Thank you for your help!

What's the deal with the Father Figure in a person's Psychology?

Parents teach you what you need to know in order to navigate life successfully. They show you how to love. If you aren't loved as a child, how will you know how to love? People are a product of their environment.

We are a multicultural couple, the tradition on my fiances side is to give money, should we still register?

We are having a bit of a conundrum. most of our wedding guests will be Indian and traditionally would give a monetary gift. Some of our guests are Canadian and traditionally would give a gift, so should we still register? we do not want our Indian guests to feel that they should purchase a present as the reception is going to be a traditional Punjabi reception and we want to respect their traditions. What should we do?

How to be friends before dating?

So everyone keeps telling me that the best kind of relationships are the ones where the two people involved are "friends" first. But I (a guy) don't know how to just be friends with a woman without giving her the impression that I want to date. If I so much as chat in a normal, friendly and basic manner with a woman or ask her if she wants to casually hang out, she always gets the idea that I'm interested romantically. It's a huge conundrum- I can't be friends without giving off a "dating" vibe, but being friends beforehand is, ostensibly, the best way to go about things. What can I do?

I've only had my corn snake for about 2 weeks and ive only seen it drink once?

i have a 20 gallon tank, with a warm side nd a cool side to it. i keep the water dish at the cool sid eof the tank, but my snake always stays at the warm side, and i rarely ever see it move. he eats regularly, but i've only seen it drink once, they day i got it. his eyes r turnig whiteish bec he is going to shed soon, is this y he wont move much?? i can hold it perfectly fine, moves around alot whn i hol it, but whn i put it bck in the tank he jst crawls back to his hiding place nd just sits there all the time. i see his place changes now and again when i get up in the morning, do they tend to move around more at night?? or mostly just when im not paying attention, bec im not in my room all day, but always when i get back in my room hes in the same spot at that rock just a diff position. my snake isnt very big, only about 18 inches, just wondering if maybe the one side of the tank isnt warm enough and the snake just doesnt get warm enough to move, or bec its going to shed jst doesnt feel like moving, or mostlikly, moves when i am not paying attention nd i prob have nthing to wrry about?? im a first time snake owner (abviously) and i just dont want my snake to die on me or anything....any extra tips on corn snake care would be greatly appreciated..thnks :)

Problems with feet/ankles?

I am a teenager but I have had many feet problems playing soccer and basketball. I usually use icy hot to soothe the pain. A source of your feet problem could be the lack of support in your shoes when you run. You could of also hurt your achillies tendon when walking up hill.

Why does no one care about the plight of innocent lentils?

I have seen video after video of animal cruelty. But nobody cares about the lentils. Those precious legumes just want to be fertilized so they can drop to the ground, find roots, collect sun and water then grow into new lentil plants. But callous humans chop them down and treat them as nothing more than food. They commit genocide against the gentle lentil. They torture the precious plants, literally ripping their precious female sexual organs off by the millions. Far more lentils are destroyed every year than people were in the Holocaust. But nobody sheds a tear for the little, defenseless beans. When will this tragedy end?

I saw an animal get hit while driving?

today i was driving in my car and a raccoon runs out in front of the car ahead of me. idk if the car noticed the raccoon but it didn't make any effort to stop or slam on the brakes to not hit the raccoon, and it ran over it. :( when i came home i started bawling my eyes out because it was such an innocent creature and no one deserves to die like that, even if it's an animal. does anyone else feel the same way?!

How can i lose weight just on my stomach to be really toned for my summer hol?

You can not really key target areas im afraid. If you work out and lose weight you will find that you will lose it from top working down to the bottom.

Has anyone ever analyzed the names of the people of the O.T. . ?

Your theory sounds a little far out, especially since Jews are already Caucasian. The only thing I know about the names is that I heard a Biblical scholar say "Adam" meant "man" - in the generic sense - at the time the Bible was written.

How do I stop hair growth on my face, that isn't part of a 'stache or beard?

well I'm 16 and have started to notice that their are these little holes on my face, and that hair is coming out of them. these hairs are growing on my cheekbone, and the area around the nose and under the eyes. it's really not the ideal place to have hear growing, but I know that shaving makes your hair grow thicker, WHAT THE **** DO I DO!? (I use an electric razor by the way) I wan't a way to stop the hairgrowth, without any sort of wild crazy treatment and without having to make my hair thicker by shaving. quite the conundrum please help!

Guy problem please help?

So theres this guy. His name is Ryan. He is 15, im 13. We like eachother a lot. But my mom won't let us date until I'm freshmen because she thinks he is too old and wants me to be in highschool to date him. BEFORE I TELL THE STORY MY MOM KNOWS ALL OF THIS, i tell her stuff. Well we go to the pool together, and we want to date eachother pretty badly, like we can't stand it. When we go to the pool he will put his arm around me and hold my hand and he respects my boundaries and my mom's decisions completely. Well we aren't dating because we won't go behind my mother's back like that. But we kissed at the pool today, nothing big just an innocent 3 second one.. He also met my mom today too and she likes him. I dont know.. I feel like a hoe for kissing him and getting all close with him at the pool and we aren't even dating, I love it and I am totally comfortable. It's just afterwards I feel like I should be dating him and doing this stuff. We pretty much are just not with the label but still.. Advice? Please don't judge... That's sort of why I'm feeling like this, because people are so judgmental these days.. Help??

Why do people still believe Faster-than-Light travel such as Wormholes and Warp Drives are still possible?

Arent you assuming things are impossible given the elements found on earth and current level of technology? For example what if there were a naturally occurring element found on a planet not far enough away to necessitate FTL that we could reach eventually that opened up new power generation possibilities or something. People have always thought all kinds of things were impossible like landing on the moon and affordable salon grade hair products. I believe whats more likely than some type of FTL is just fusion powered ships where the crew sleep in cryo pods for year long journeys

What can happen to me if i made a false statement to the police because fear of jail and fear of life?

I need helpreally bad! Me and my fiance got into a heated argument where we split for a while well during this time i began to hang with the wong crowd. One morning while watching the news with these new friends i saw his cousins house burnt down and i made the statement "I ought to go tell the police he burnt that house down just to piss him off". well my "friends" money hungy b**** did not like my fiance nor his cousin because he got them evicted from an apartment they stayed in when he worked sercurity. They figured they could get some quick reward money so they called the arson investigator and told him that my fiance burnt the house down for insurance fraud! i was asked to make a statement at which time i was pregnant and living on my own i lived in apartment alone and the "friends" stayed in the complex as well. well i was told that if i opened my mouth and told on them for lying i wouldnt have to worry about having my child because they would take care of me! When i told the arson investagator i didnt know anything he kept telling me i was lying and i was about to get arrested i was so scared i told him what he wanted to hear at which point he told me that he ws going to arrest my fiance if he didnt come make a statement. i got in contact with my fiance and he was scared of me going to jail or getting hurt that he lied to cover my *** now three people are being indicted on charges of first degree arson i dont know what to do can someone help me?? even after the statement were made i had to all the police three times on the "friends" because one tried to hit me with her car after i told her i was going to tell the truth, then i was walking up my steps with my brother and about 15 of her family members tried to rush us, and one actually came knocking on my door one night while my family was there trying to fight me i dont want to go to jail but i dont want those innocent people to go either!! i am unemployed and hardly have the money for a lawyer what can i do?

What can I do with my friend over the school hol's? Other that stay at home?

Hi. Ummmm. I wanna catch up with my friend over the holidays but I am stuck on ideas. I can't invite her over and I don't want to come over because I don't know her parents. We have all ready have been to the mall and seen movies and I can't go to the city. We don't live near eachother (about 45 minutes away), so we can't just walk to the park. WHAT CAN WE DO! Thankyou so so so so so so much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! xoxoxo PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Please help answer my Conundrum.?

Okay. So, I am an atheist, and I joined the Navy and went to Japan. Lately, everything is getting quite repetitive and just flat out boring. There is no excitement, and I just want to go back to how things were. Where I had these amazing friends, and we enjoyed everything together. Even after I had to leave them, I met different, interesting people, who I could enjoy my experiences with. But here... I can find no one. It's quite sad really. But I have been thinking about how to add some excitement into my life. And I came across a thought on why people cut themselves. I know its to feel pain, and pain can overcome any shadow of misery, and through that, pleasure. But.... if you are willing to do that, why not just end it? Life is just too complicated and dull? What is the purpose of living if it's just to feel pain, either physical or mental, either way? When just one bullet, a fall from a tall building, or even a deeper cut, can just end it all?

What does this tell you about this teacher (please answer)?

Last week, I was crying in drama and my drama teacher asked me if I was alright,but didn't make me tell her what was wrong,but just hoped I was okay and this week in drama I brought my suitcase to school as I went to my friends last night and this morning she said, "May I ask?" She repeated it,she was talking about the suitcase and said, "are you going on hol or moving away from home" so I told her about it all. What does it say about her?!

How do people in Russian schooling learn about the last royal family, the Romanovs?

Are they taught of all the atrocities and are Nicholas 2ndm Alexandra and their children portrayed as bad, heartless people or are they portrayed as innocent victims of the revolution OR is it neutral? Do they learn a lot about that element of Russian history in Russian schools?

Can God make a mountain that is too Heavy for Him to Lift?

God is supposed to be Omnipotent, Omniscient and Omnipresent. If He is all powerful, all knowing and everywhere, then the above question may pose a little conundrum. Plus, if God is everywhere does that mean He is currently in Hell, down my toilet, in Satan's ***? Just a thought.

Birth Control question...?

In the past few months I have noticed some changes with the way my body reacts to my BC. I have been on it for over 1 year and recently on the second week of my pills I bloat as if I am going to start my period and my ovaries ache or I have cramps. Of course this automatically makes me think that I may be pregnant and then I remember that it does this to me every month. Any answers that may help this conundrum of mine? Thanks for any answers in advance!

A conundrum for the Christians: Heaven and Free Will?

Christians say that god allows suffering on earth because eliminating the suffering would take away Christians' free will. There is no suffering in heaven. Therefore how can you have free will in heaven?

Casey Anthony innocent of cold blooded murder?

In watching the trial on and off each day I have come to the decision that nobody has shown how Caylee died. The body was to decomposed to determine a cause of death. My personal opinion is that those involved panicked instead calling the police.

If all you Christians believe every word in the Bible, then where did all the animals on earth come from?

I see you only listen to your Sunday School Teacher and never read the Bible for yourself. Noah took ever clean animal by sevens and the unclean by twos male and female. Noah only sacrificed one of each one of the clean animals. Genesis 7:2 Of every clean beast thou shalt take to thee by sevens, the male and his female: and of beasts that are not clean by two, the male and his female. Genesis 7:3 Of fowls also of the air by sevens, the male and the female; to keep seed alive upon the face of all the earth. Genesis 8:20 And Noah builded an altar unto the LORD; and took of every clean beast, and of every clean fowl, and offered burnt offerings on the altar.

Can i wear black high heels with this dress?

so i tried it all on and it looked ok but i am not so sure: this is the link to the dress and the heels are just plain black 9cm high shinny so please answer: a href="http://www.hollisterco.com/hol/img/collection/48135_02_900.jpg" rel="nofollow"http://www.hollisterco.com/hol/img/colle…/a

My cousin got beaten up by US Marines?

So it was this morning. He's like 14 and like a gang of five Marines were driving by the neighborhood with their truck. They were going really fast and weren't looking. My cousin was crossing the street and they were going so fast that they had a sudden stop. One of them yelled at him and called him an a$$hol€ and dropped the f-bomb. But my cousin gave them the finger and threatened to tell because they were driving above the speed limit. So that one Marine dude got out of the car and started punching him about five times by the time he was done, my cousin had a bruise on his upper left cheek. They left, and we were just standing there, what do I do now? I haven't told anyone the truth yet, we both told his parents that he ran into a pole but it started to hurt real bad, oh and did he deserve it ir not?

Taylor swift accidently took a picture with a guy who had a swastika on his t-shirt does this mean ...?

she hates jews ? her rep. said taylor did not see the swastika and even the guy with the swastika apologized to taylor for dragging her into the incident . so is she innocent or guilty ? or is it the guy's fault ?

My ex girlfriend and I got in contact after 2 months, my heads a mess and need advice?

It sounds to me like she's just trying to be friends. Moving on is hard, i know, and with time it will get easier, its best if you just keep busy to try to keep your mind off her. If you see her, talk to her, be friendly, if you receive texts from her, reply and be friendly, eventually she'll let u know what she wants.

Recognize this anime movie?

The storyline is a bit blurry for me havent watched it in 6 years, anyways......It starts out as this innocent family, but the mother is actually a cyborg and the parents are hiding that fact from their daughter.....umm middle of the movie shes getting attacked by some people in a warehouse....near the end their about to take a space shuttle to Mars when their attacked at the spaceport, The mothers gets a cut in the shoulder and wires start pouring out the daughter discovers her moms a cyborg and her mother goes into ragemode......then they take the shuttle to mars and it shows them on a beach on Mars.

Is this depression or not?

Im thirteen years old and am in 8th grade.My parents fight all the time and have had to call the police on several occasions. Ever since we moved back to America my mom has been drinking and my dad has been neglecting my sister (16) and I. I really don't like talking about their situation when they ask me so I just shut up and bottle up my emotions (not wanting to start anything). We moved to North Carolina 3 and a half years ago and it was good, I was making friends and right when I was going into 7th grade at the junior high we moved to new york. After a year at the middle school there my mom found out her stupid job was making her move back to North Carolina even after I missed up big time there (because I thought I wasn't coming back). You might think this is just some idiot complaining and I agree I am complaining but I have no one to talk to in my house,since my sisters getting ready for college, nd I get really depressed spending so much time alone. I usually go on facebook but it just makes me more depressed to see that the innocent kids I knew in 6th grade have turned into sl*ts and douchebgs. I literally only have one friend that I hangout with here and shes not a very good influence on me. I HATE , really HATE my life, but I can't really do anything about it and I diffently don't wanna commit suicide but at least then I would escape the peer pressure crashing in on me. The rare times I actually talk to someone they say im just complaining, or im moody, its a "phase", you just want attention, or stop bothering me. I'm sick and tired of being treated like a kid but excpected to act like a freaking adult! I'm only 13 why is this happening to me while everyone else loves their life. I concluded that maybe its just because my moms job makes us move a lot and I never have best friends that I can talk to and I think its accurate. Please, do I need therapy or is this just a phase that everyone goes through? Because if it is it sucks I always feel sick and I get major stress headaches from worrying about it.

What would change if I lost 2 stone?

I'm planning to loose 2 stone, I know I can do it as I've lost a stone before but put it back on not because I lost it too fast but because of christmas luxuries. Anyway, other than clothes what would change I'm curious? & Anyone know what clothes would change? Thanks Hol 17 :)

I need help with this riddle/conundrum!?

ha i asked the same thing, cheating is interesting isn't it, i admit im not smart enough to do it myself

Is this guy still interested?

It's really hard to say. He might be interested but he might just be looking for a booty call. If I were you I either wouldn't waste my time on him or I would take it slow and careful.

How good is my Blue Control deck for MTG?

84 cards seriously??? You have way to many cards and just not that much card draw. Two Temple Bells out of 84 cards just won't happen. Your mana curve is too high.

Car finance conundrum?

Walked into a JCT600 dealership and explained that I want a car but have bad credit. My dad had agreed to take the finance in his name,all the forms were signed and finance was agreed. The dealership asked us who would be on the logbook, I said myself would be the owner. Picked up the car and drove away. Dad rang the finance company to change the outgoing bank details to mine to make it easier,they asked whether he owned the car,he said 'no'. The car is getting repossessed in 14 days because the person taking finance should be the owner,which the dealership never told us. What can we do? We have never missed a payment and in no way at a gain if either one of us are the registered owner.

My girlfriend broke up with me but we got in contact, need advice please?

What ever her reasons for the break up are, this was her choice and you need to respect that. I know it hurts and can understand and I commend you for allowing her to move on. You sound like a nice guy and it is her lost. Now, for her to get back in contact with an ex who cheated on her indicates she has some unresolved issues with him. Perhaps she needs some time to sort things out. In the mean time you do all you can to move on. I know it is not easy but if you take it one day at a time you will overcome this. My guess is that she is beginning to regret the break up, but don't allow yourself to sit at home depending on hope alone. Good luck to you!

Why do so many people think it's cool to be in a gang? ?

I've gotten a few answers from some people who claim to be gang members. I'm talking violent gangs.. I hear the words "brothers", ."family". They talk about it's where they belong. Um, these gangs MURDER INNOCENT PEOPLE. They see violence as a way of life.. The threat of killing, and being killed is very real.. And this isn't just from rival gang members, but from your fellow gang members. It's not rare for them to turn on each other. And don't even get me started on how they treat women. Gang rape as a form of initiation? How the hell is that cool, or respectful? I don't get it.

Wheres better tenerife or malia?

hi people, me and my friend r lookin 2go on a lads type hol this summer july/august. We already been 2 kardamena last yr and it was top notch! Anyways if anyones been to either tenerife or malia, or both (even better) could u give us some helpful info on which would be the better option? Many thanks for any feedback!

What's the deal with the Father Figure in a person's Psychology?

aAa~A father really doesn't have anything to do with weather any ones an asshole or not! How could it if he isn't around to be ANY kind of influence.You are who u are cause that's your choice,there may be some traits of ur father because of genetics & what u may have gotten use to seeing him do,but that can be from anybody u copy.You make the decisions on what YOU are like not him.We are not our fathers,we are individuals as in separate.If ppl would listen to whats in their hearts & souls in just good common sense things would not be so difficult 4 them.

Decisions decisions ??????? the husband using wifes account?

I'm in the market for a gun but i have real problem , money and not just wanting one gun i wont / need two guns .... i live in a ruff neighbored and cant make up my mind if to get a handgun / springfield armory xd 9 mm or a tactical rifle/ rem 700 sps tactical 308 . one for home defense one for hunting . but at this time( one )is all i can afford and to note i already have an sks with a tasco stock and 1 thirty round clip and 1 forty round clip pluss hundreds of rounds for those mags . not the best idea for home defense considering i live in an apartment and not the best for a real all round hunting rifle that will drop most animals in north-america within at least 350 to 400 yards . its more of a combat / urban warfare rifle that fires rounds that penetrate plenty of materials . so seeing that all in all i have a gun (sks) that does do the job of either roll with the right type of ammo the idea of the 7.62x39 going through a wall and accidentally killing someone that is innocent and also not being able to really reach out and touch something / animal puts me in a bit of a conundrum . what to do ? and let it be known i do have a lot of gang members living all around me plus lots of homeless people all over the place and i have a wife and child . my concern is that the way things are going in the world would the sks fill most of that roll or to be honest if the $h!t hit the fan i would need a rifle that would put food on the table .the sks would do the job of protection if that was the case (worst case scenario) and drop animals too. so what should i do ? buy the hand gun or the rifle . i want honest opinions , which one is worth its weight in gold ? plus i do know that some time down the road i need to buy some version of a 22lr for small game but that is down the road .

What's a working holiday visa and how do i get one...?

i want to travel around australia for 1 year and someone suggested a working hol visa... what is this? does i mean i have to work well in australia?

Does he even like me? Why hasn't he taken the next step? Is he leading me on?

I reconnected with a guy friend from high school about 10 months ago. We dated for like 2 weeks in 9th grade (everything innocent), but remained friends. So now, after years we reconnected and we started, hanging out like going to the movies, dinner, roller blading, star gazing, beach at night, museums, and coffee. We don't go out every weekend. So, now I have developed feelings for him, I told him how I felt about six months ago, and he said that he wanted to be financially stable (find a job). Am 23, with a college degree, and job, he's 24 yrs old, with a college degree and no job yet, he is shy Christian guy, family oriented, very courteous. He told me that we are great friends and that maybe in the future something can happen between us. Am always the one who is initiates the texting and the hanging out well sometime he does (He always keeps our conversation going) and if doesn't respond soon he apologizes and gives me an explanation. He tells me that he's not a text person, but that with me he can text all day, also he doesn't go out, only with family. His last relationship was about 2 1/2 yrs ago. The only physical contact we have had is hugs, cuddle, I inter wind my arm on his, kiss on the cheek; we have given each other massages. I have nibble/bitten his ear, he has on mine too. He always goes out of his way to please me. Lets me borrow his jacket, lets me choose where we go etc…we have pet names for each other. He's such a sweetheart, and gentlemen. I just don't want to confuse his chivalry ways into signs he likes me. I just know that he is not ready for a relationship, but I want to know if he likes me or has feelings for me. I told him that maybe it wasn't a good idea to keep going out, and he was like why? Did I do something wrong? I told him no, I just feel that you don't feel the same way about me and he was like, well I have always been honest with you, we are great friends, I would be really sad if you decide to break our friendship. I just don't know where I stand in his life. Does he like me but is he not ready? Or am I reading way too much into it. He stills wants us to keep going out. At the beginning he used to paid for me, but since he is not working, I pay sometimes, but he's reluctant, he saids that he doesn't want me to think that he's taking advantage of me in that sense. After, I told him that I was not going to keep texting him, he initiates the texting, he is more flirty, we text to the eve hours at night and day nonstop, he seems more comfortable with me with more trust. He doesn't hang out nor talk with any other friends but me. He saids he won’t hurt me, but I think am the one hurting already. Is he leading me on? Should I distant myself and give him space or still go out as friends. Please help!!!

Kissing My Girlfriend?

So Im 15 and me and my girlfriend have been dating for 2 and a half weeks and i want to kiss her. We are going to hang out tomorrow at her house and i think i should do it. It only took 1 day for me and my ex to kiss and blah blah, but my new gf is like innocent and is like joyful lol..But we really like each other and i want to do it but her being really inocent makes me think that there might be an akward moment after. But i really want to but should i? Im a really confident guy but i respect people thats why lol

My Manga Plot, Is it Okay or Not?

Love it. if it ever gets published send me the first COPY!! p.s (im critical) i don't really read any action or fantasy mangas, mostly romance. but im kinda like the main charcter its nice to know ;)

"No affection" relationship = friends?!?!?

Honestly if he hasnt made a move on you and its been months, i dont think theres anything to be guilty of. Kissing is something thats done early on at least, maybe not sex but something to show affection.

Yet another 'what should I do' conundrum.?

If you value your friendship over a potential boyfriend, just keep it that way. Try to figure out who he likes. It might be you! Good luck!

Met him 9 months ago... what do u think of this?

We met 9 months ago on hliday and had a thing. One night he asked for my number so he obviously wanted to stay in contact. Hes 23 and im 20. We live 3-4 hours apart. On the last day i was quiet and didnt realy speak to him. We were at a bar before we were going to the airport and my friend said he was looking at me. Same time him and his friends met a group of girls that live like 40 mins away from him. Anyway as we said bye it seemed we wouldnt see each other again but we obv liked each other. I found his and his friends fb about 2 months later and practically as soon as i added him the next time we were on fb cht same time he was talking to me and has been ever since! I saw though that when he got back from hol previously he was now friends with some of those girls and started seeing one of them. Although this it seems as though when he started talking to me again things stopped with her because he asked to see me but i couldnt and he hinted loads. As i said we’ve been talking on fb loads for 7 months. A few weeks ago i went for a casting near where he lives and he spent the night with me, went out with his friends and then spent the nxt day chillin at his and he baught me lunch. Obv we’ve been speaking since and when i said i’d got the audition and would be there again he said we’d have to meet up thats in the planning stage now. The fact that he initiated seeing me again on hol and that he’s been talking to me for 7 months i kinda think wel he must like me especially because i dont exactly live close ...even though he did see that girl for abit does it seem like he wanted me more as they stopped seeing each other and the fact that he evenwanted to start talking to me again even after 2 months?

Gambia Holiday In January?

Agree with Richard re jabs and other sites. As a girl I found wetwipes, loo roll and talcum powder a bonus. You can holiday there fairly cheaply because rent, transport, booze and cigs are cheap but daily cost of living pretty much the same as over here.

What do you think of my piece of writing?

ok....so....um....Well I read it all..and ..I think to be completley honest, i just have to say, your ******* amazing at writing! Its so poetic and its kinda creepy but yet beautiful! I love it!!!

What u think of what he said?

met a guy that lives 3- 4hrs away from me on hol 10 months ago and we been talkin eva since we've been fb friends. he's invited me there bfre but i couldnt go. i've had wrk placement near him 3 times recently and whenever i'm there he comes to see/stay with me. i asked if he has easter holidays/time off and he said no just bank holidays so he actally doesnt .so i said was just gna ask if he wanted to come here if he had time off. he said i see, i dont get time off unfortunately. (actually true) i said 'thats the nicest i dont want to ever lol '.he replied 'haha'.....was he just 'laughing' cos maybe it seems jokey? I thaugh maybehe 'laughed' cos he didnt deny it but then he said he couldnt so what more could he really say?

Conundrum about finishing wood floors?

My husband and I are trying to decide whether or not to bother refinishing the wood floors in our 3 small bedrooms. Right now you can hardly tell what condition they're in because of the area rugs we have. If we got them finished, we'd just be putting the rugs back down so it seems pointless to me. However it may be easier to do it now rather than in 5 years when we have kids in the house. We also want the carpet in our LR pulled up to have the floors underneath finished but not right now- should we wait and do all the floors at once? Is there any point in doing the bedrooms if they'll be covered with area rugs? They're not in horrible shape, only one room has stains that need to be sanded.

I want to take a Skiing trip to USA. But I'm British living in Australia on a working hol visa?

If you're just looking for travel medical insurance (which is unclear because you never really asked a question), then you can buy US plans. We have links and information to three different companies.

Video Card Conundrum?

Alright, shopping around for a new Video Card, I currently have a Radeon 1800XL (has been a great card for the past 2+ years) and am on a budget of $150 ~ $160. Seems to be the consensus around the net that I should be looking at these three cards; GeForce GTX 460 768MB, GeForce GTX 550 Ti, and Radeon HD5770. It seems that the 460GTX is more favorable among the three but my concern is that it's 768MB while the others mentioned are 1024MB. Could anyone give me some input and/or advice on which I should go with, or does anyone have a suggestion for a different card?

My first love broke up with me suddenly. Need advice what to do now?

hun, what you just described are symptoms of a broken heart. Most of us have experienced a broken heart and it is extremely painful. The memories, the belief you will never love anyone else, the hope for reconciliation keeps one from moving forward, the never ending feelings of rejections, the cycle goes on and on seeming like an endless sea of despair. But the truth is, regardless of how you feel today there is light at the end of the tunnel and you will get over it. I do not want to offer false hope to you because it appears as if she did not value nor share the same feelings that you have for her. As difficult as it may seem, the best thing you can do is to let her go. Let your pride and dignity guide you through this. Get therapy or even join a support group so that you can vent and let your feelings out. Talk to friends and family members who will love and support you through this difficult time. I know this is not what you wanted to hear, but what else can you do? She has not made any attempts to call you, not even to pay you back the money she owes you. This says a lot towards her character. She is not what you have paved her out to be, and you deserve a girl who will honor honestly and love you the way you want to be loved. My heart goes out to you and send you a prayer that you will overcome this because I believe you will. Good luck to you!

How can I become less outgoing?

I really don't like how outgoing I am. When I find myself being excitable and friendly and outgoing, I feel... wrong somehow. I want to be a little more shy and a bit more graceful, but I don't want to have to pretend to be someone I'm not. Is it weird for me to feel this way? Please, tell me what you think about my particular conundrum.

I have 0 social skills with kids my age?

Look I never faced reality until now, and it hurts, badly. I never talk in school...Never before. Today I asked a kid my age (15 Freshmen) for what was the homework. Then out of nowhere, even the new kids tell me this, that I am short, unathletic, stupid, and bad at everything, suck at life,and have no social skills. I've been told nasty things, but nothing of this sort. I realized it hurt so much because well it's true. I'm sick of people feeling pity for me. And the bizarre part of this conundrum is that I get along with adults fine. To make friends I tried listening to someone, being nice and honest. It dosen't work. So how do i start a conversation and keep it going? Give examples and different scenarios.

Serious Question about on and off boyfriend?

Omg is that my ex-boyfriend? They sound SO similar, the way they talk and behave. My advice is DONT go back to him (you probably cant anyway because he is in jail) but its his fault he is in there. For Gods sake girl, he tried to KILL someone!!!! Are you out of your mind??? But I know that feeling, you feel he loves you. But he has been abusive to you too, dont forget that! I'm not only talking theories, I had a similar experience and I had to cut all ties with him and it was difficult, but I did it for my safety, and mainly for my emotional health.

What clothes are essential for 7 day hol?

Going to Cornwall - I have a bit of spending money to buy any clothes I need because I'm redecorating my room and threw some stuff away lol! I'll hopefully be on the beach, shopping and eating out (plus probably hiking and cycling.) It's seven days. What essentials should I take? Thanks xxx

How can i get my parents to listen to what me and my boyfriend have to say?

Okay, I first met my parents at the age of eighteen, I had been living in America since i was very little, when i moved "home" I met this guy, who is a friend of the family, he is in his 30's and we basically hit it off, we like the same music, same books, same... everything,, And for the first time in my life i felt a connection with someone! he is an amazing guy, and he got the courage to ask me out, and i said yes! we decided not to tell anyone for a few weeks till we knew what was happening ourselves, but i felt myself fall for him a little harder every time i saw him, of course in time my parents found out, and my mum was happy, but my father was completely out of his mind, he made us stop seeing each other, (which is impossible since his family have dinner with mine every week) but i tried, and it broke my heart so much, that i decided to go back to america, to study, i lasted until Christmas, when i came home for the hol's he was the only person i wanted to see, and i got my wish, it was my first real Christmas, and all the family have a get together at my Grandmothers for a party, and he was there, even though none of his family knew about "us" he went for it, (in front of his and my entire family) he walked acrss the kitchen grabbed me and kissed me so passionately i nearly fainted, of course there was war, but i didn't care, i was with the one i loved more than anything, he asked me to marry him on New Years Eve and i said YES! so now to tell my parents, I dont even know if they'll listen, are we wrong to have fallen in love with each other, what do we do!?

Need help saving abandoned turtles?

I would say ask a reptile store owner or specialist, because you don't want to let them go in wild pond or lake, because they are pets, not wild. It's like letting your dog run free and expecting it to survive, so it may not work. But otherwise, I would still take care of them for as long as you have to. Poor things :(

Your body is possessed by a spirit?

I don't think a person represents God well when he has to challenge or feel challenged by others with intellect.....I just don't think God's about all that...Now, if you could have helped the dude with a good heart and conscious, I'd be more inclined to agree with you...But I'm just not discerning a good brotherly spirit here...Just two children growing up/

ACCOUNTING question regarding paying extra rent before consuming it?

You could count prepaid rent as an asset. You credit cash $2215, debit expense:rent $2060 and debit asset:prepaid rent $155. The following month, you credit the $155 from prepaid rent to rent, and you would still owe $2060 - $155 for that month's rent.

Why do feminists hate me for being a male? Why is being born a male a bad thing?

The top radical feminist leaders were all products of man-hating processes like child molestation, rape, divorce, etc that made them develop hatred for men. Their jealousy and desire for vengeance fuels this hatred and being leaders, they easily brain washed and polluted their followers teaching them that all men are evil, jerks and rapists. This gave birth to the the current feminism aka feminazism. Majority of women fell into this hating trap with the false belief of equality/female superiority. Only the sensible women with insight finally saw that feminism wasn't a rights movement, it was a man-hating movement that believed in female superiority and male domination.

How long after having your belly button pierced, would you recommend leaving it before going in the sea on hol?

how long after having your belly button pierced, would you recommend leaving it before going in the sea on holiday?

How to solve this riddle/conundrum?

It was a reflection. The rays of the sun reflected off the mountain peak and so, the frog could see it, or by any chance, which I doubt, the frog can see on his sides, like his eyes move to the sides of the eye socket thingies.

What can happen to me if i made a false statement to the police because fear of jail and fear of life?

I need helpreally bad! Me and my fiance got into a heated argument where we split for a while well during this time i began to hang with the wong crowd. One morning while watching the news with these new friends i saw his cousins house burnt down and i made the statement "I ought to go tell the police he burnt that house down just to piss him off". well my "friends" money hungy b**** did not like my fiance nor his cousin because he got them evicted from an apartment they stayed in when he worked sercurity. They figured they could get some quick reward money so they called the arson investigator and told him that my fiance burnt the house down for insurance fraud! i was asked to make a statement at which time i was pregnant and living on my own i lived in apartment alone and the "friends" stayed in the complex as well. well i was told that if i opened my mouth and told on them for lying i wouldnt have to worry about having my child because they would take care of me! When i told the arson investagator i didnt know anything he kept telling me i was lying and i was about to get arrested i was so scared i told him what he wanted to hear at which point he told me that he ws going to arrest my fiance if he didnt come make a statement. i got in contact with my fiance and he was scared of me going to jail or getting hurt that he lied to cover my *** now three people are being indicted on charges of first degree arson i dont know what to do can someone help me?? even after the statement were made i had to all the police three times on the "friends" because one tried to hit me with her car after i told her i was going to tell the truth, then i was walking up my steps with my brother and about 15 of her family members tried to rush us, and one actually came knocking on my door one night while my family was there trying to fight me i dont want to go to jail but i dont want those innocent people to go either!! i am unemployed and hardly have the money for a lawyer what can i do?

Why do bad people get all the good stuff?

These people are those who are lost, and there is no way for them to learn about leading a good life. God gives them abundant blessings so that they can realize on their own that they need to stop doing bad things.

I ruined it an he dont even no me?

I met this guy it was like a bolt of lightning, and wen we kissed it blew me away, before he new how i felt bout the kiss he told me i was the best kisser ever. Hes 34. Im 26. We arranged to go on a date the next night and it was great and wen we kissed it felt more intense. The next day he txt me and i replyed. Then later on we was exchanging txts and then he suddenly stopped so i got paranoid an asked him y he was ignoring me, it pissed him off. And the last few days hes been ignoring me. I no he likes me but hes gone away on hol for 2 weeks should i wait an send him a friendly txt a few days after hes back? I no in my heart that hes the man im supposed to be with but how do i make him see im not clingy like my txts probably seemed???? Thanks

What happens to dogs who hurt humans?

What happens to dogs who hurt humans by attacking, murdering or molesting them? Do they go to heaven still since they are considered innocents or do they lose their innocence once they do those things? Also, what makes them do those things? Thank you I am preparing a peer sermon for teen group.

Is this combination a conundrum?

You better go to a Psychologist... This problem has given a lot to talk to humanity for hundreds of years, i really believe that what they need is to deal in their own business rather than worry about what his neighbor is doing, I know that many of this problems start with the cultural point of view that emerges from their religion, for an occidental viewer this is nonsense, but I do believe that my attitude is not depending on what is going to make the problem bigger, I prefer to believe that I will keep my self straight and i won't do the same to them. If we believe in freedom, free we have to act

Can somebody list me ALL taylor swift songs ?

A Place In This World - Taylor SwiftBack To December - Taylor SwiftBetter Than Revenge - Taylor SwiftBreathe - Taylor SwiftBreathless - Taylor SwiftChange - Taylor SwiftCold As You - Taylor SwiftCrazier - Taylor SwiftDear John - Taylor SwiftEnchanted - Taylor SwiftFearless - Taylor SwiftFifteen - Taylor SwiftForever & Always - Taylor SwiftHaunted - Taylor SwiftHey Stephen - Taylor SwiftInnocent - Taylor SwiftJump Then Fall - Taylor SwiftLast Kiss - Taylor SwiftLong Live - Taylor SwiftLove Story - Taylor SwiftMary's Song (Oh My My My) - Taylor SwiftMean - Taylor SwiftMine - Taylor SwiftNever Grow Up - Taylor SwiftOur Song - Taylor SwiftPicture To Burn - Taylor SwiftShould've Said No - Taylor SwiftSparks Fly - Taylor SwiftSpeak Now - Taylor SwiftStay Beautiful - Taylor SwiftTeardrops on My Guitar - Taylor SwiftTell Me Why - Taylor SwiftThe Best Day - Taylor SwiftThe Outside - Taylor SwiftThe Story of Us - Taylor SwiftThe Way I Loved You - Taylor SwiftTied Together With A Smile - Taylor SwiftTim McGraw - Taylor SwiftToday Was a Fairytale - Taylor SwiftWhite Horse - Taylor SwiftYou Belong With Me - Taylor SwiftYou're Not Sorry - Taylor Swift

How do I make myself be better with women?

I always see these superheros on the television programs; I have always wonder how could I be like them. I am so imperfect it's inconvenient to be so rudimentary. My grades in school are mostly A's and B's. I can lift 200 pounds and I weigh 185 pounds. How can I meliorate myself. I am not omnipotent, but i can speak with extraordinary eloquence, and I am pretty good with Muay Thai. I am 6 feet tall; I can work around that though! The thing is that women I know don't want to date me! I have alot of acquaintances, but they never want to go steady with me! What am I doing wrong here? Can any individual explicate the conundrum, and help enrich my medulla oblongata?

O.K, does collision cover you in this scenario?

you get rear ended, and the other driver does have full coverage but comes up with a good lie and is deemed not at fault by her insurance company. At the same time, your insurance company says your not at fault. will collision cover something that is not your fault, but at the same time the other drivers insurance company says their not at fault? is this some kind of insurance gap, or conundrum that must be settled in court?

I want to go on holiday cheap if me and my wife go to Manchester airport is their a chance we would get?

I want to go on holiday cheap if me and my wife go to Manchester airport is their a chance we would get a cheap hol to anywhere

I need advice regarding the use of a buyer's agent on a piece of land offered from a developer that won't pay.?

What you want is everything that a realtor can do for you, but are NOT willing to pay for it. As an agent, I wouldn't work with you without some type of agreement upfront.

What happend if i drill some hol in end of exsost cbr 1100 to improve the sound.?

The origina can for cbr black bird no sound.i saw in youtup guy drill the afew hol in the end around the maine one and the sound get nice.if i do it the bike will get bad or the same.and what about the fule?

Can your GP get you out of a holiday if your pregnant?? help?

I have just found im pregnant im in my first T1 but as excitied as i am cant tell anyone yet but i have book a holiday for Aug with my pals to Ibiza, with it the madest of hotels also , party central. There is no way i can go their 5 months pregnant and doubt my hotel would let me stay there 5 months showing and neither do i want to ruin my pals holiday with my soberness! I have paid my hol in full part being on a credit card, can be GP write me a letter to cancel my place which wont leave my friends in financial bother as thats the last thing i want i rather the travel agents kept the money if that was the case. Anyone or Doctors out their know?? As i do know if a medical condition then theirs a poss but think has to be serious rather than being pregnant . lol

Girls.. would be upset if your boyfriend did this?

In my opinion, I would be kinda mad/upset because he shouldn't be doing that, specially since he has YOU, HIS GIRLFRIEND. But if you say tht she would do nothing to slip you guys up then everything should be ok. I would keep an eye on her tho. Just be careful and if it bothers you so much then ask him to take them down.

Anybody been bitten by a Madeira tick?

Whilst on hol a tick jumped on my neck on the last day. By time I got home was very red and swollen so used dog tick remover and saw doctor next day. Now taking Doxycycline antbiotic which means have to avoid sunshine for next 2 weeks, and putting benadryl cream on bite. Is still swollen like a giant pimple. How long before it goes down?

For Sexually Open Minded couples is this wrong to feel? Mature answers only.?

My wife and I have an odd conundrum we are a normal couple who through a recent sexual experience found that we have a sexual appetite for wanting share one another with other couples (I,e man and woman). We love each other dearly and have never felt this way before this past weekend. It is a very confusing time for us because as much as we love one another we are so very aroused by the thought and/or activity of us being with other people while in each others presence. Again we are normal couple but with this new found experience it has made the desire for our voracious sexual appetite come out more and more. Now before anyone becomes judgmental we are not sexual deviants, we are not horrible people and we are 100% safe in our activities. We have no children and we both work and go to school. We just would like to know if its wrong to feel this way because being that we love one another so much we still feel jealousy towards the thought off another person satisfying the other sexually yet the thought and/or activity is so very arousing it is too hard to resist. Before anyone answers this be mindful childishness and stupidity will be ignored, please no passages from the bible we are both agnostic and have our own beliefs that do not revolve around the bible so again please refrain from telling us that we are morally bankrupt or horrible people. We are just sexually open people that have needs and sexual desires just like everyone else. Happy answering. Thank you in advance

Letter of recommendation opinions?

You want someone who is high up to write the letter. So, have the director write it. You may want to include some specific information about yourself so that he can include that in the letter as well and make is sound less generic.

Wages not paid on leaving job?

My husband worked part time as school bus driver. No retainer paid in the holidays. He is only paid by the hour, no sick pay. The company paid him a weeks hol pay at christmas and he would have got two more in the summer break. He joined in October, He was not given a contract or a letter with details of hours, wages, notice, sickness or holidays. He left last week giving 3 days notice and the company say they will not pay him for his final weeks work as they paid him holiday at Christmas, Can they do this please?

Football season 2011/12 dates?

First game of the season... I think... That is a very big game, could be even bigger if it is at home and if it is against a team they normally have a good game with.

Do Christians know if intermediate fossils, Homo Erectus, Homo Sapien and Homo Habilus became extinct.........?

I'm sorry - are we talking parts of one skeleton? I personally don't feel an explanation is necessary. However, if that is not acceptable, I'm sure there are science books on the subject you could reference. Try re-asking your question in that forum.

If it took a farmer an hour to dig half a hole how long would it take to dig a full hol?

If it takes him an hour to dig half a hole then itll take him another hour to dig another half which make a whole hole.

Why do people on YA automatically assume you are a troll if you have a new account and have few points?

I can ask the most sincere and innocent question and people think they are so "wise" by "discovering" that I am secretly a troll just because I recently registered and have few points.

Advice urgently needed on state of repair in home uk?

abreviated words terrible spelling and lack of capital letters and coherent sentences make this impossible to read sorry try again

My numeric conundrum...?

When you repeatedly add the digits until you get a single digit, you are calculating the "digital root" of the number. Let DR denote the function that takes a number to its digital root. The property that you are observing is that DR(a+b)=DR(a)+DR(b). There is a Wikipedia page on digital roots--check it out!

Is it the same? A cup of liquid versus a cup of flour?

Hi, I was making daifuku with a bunch of friends one day, and we ran into a problem. None of us are kitchen savvy, but we really wanted to make daifuku and we thought it would be fun. Anyway, we ran into the conundrum that we needed a cup of rice powder. All we could find was a 2 cup container that was for liquids. They wanted to fill it up half way and just use that. But I argued that if we did that it would mess up the recipe, because I thought that using the two different containers would give us slightly different measurements leading to too much rice powder. My question is would it really have been the same amount had we used the one cup that usually measures liquid versus the one cup that usually measures things like flour?

Why dont I have Scorpio attributes?

I'm a 14 year old scorpio girl, but I'm shy, and my beast friend calls me a bit mysterious. But I have tht innocent large doe eye thing, instead if intense piercing eyes, except when I smile evilly? Lol. By intense eyes, do they mean tht your eyes are the first rhing ppl notice when they look at you? And I don't have a strong presence when I walk into a room, Like ppl don't really care if I'm there or not. And also, Im not a b*tch, I'm just wondering btw, not that I DO want to be a b*tch...aren't scorpios supposed to be confident and all?

How do you know when you're in love, What does it mean to you?

Ive been with my husband for 5 years.. and he still holds me close every night..kisses me lots.. and compliments me daily on how he cant live without me..no woman on earth is better or more beautiful than me..etc..etc.. you know ure in true love when u can not only see urself old with him, but not be able to picture it without him. Hold out for the passion..its soo worth it! I was in a lot of relationships like the one your in and i thought the same things..till i met my husband and i said.. ok thats it.. thats what it truly feels to be in love. Its a fire, a passion that u jus cant fake. good luck sweeti!

Ex-Girlfriend Conundrum?

wow such situations are complicated. because a lot of emotions are at play. but what about you, do you want her back? you might be feeling pity for her but that doesnt mean you should be together again. she also could be desperate and look anywhere for love, or just a shoulder to cry on, understandable as it is. i think its best you remain friends until you see how the baby affects your relationship with each other, you could be together for wrong reasons in the end, and yet again she might dump you again after she is used to her maternal role and everything involve d in being a parent etc.. just be there for her as friend, i strongly suggest that. plus please dont revenge for the dumping she gave you earlier, you sound like a cool guy, good luck

Studying literature in graduate school?

So here is my conundrum: I'm a junior linguistics/english double major who (due to a family issue) is moving to ecuador to finish my last year. I aspire to be a literature professor for a college...should i continue my study of literature in an ecuadorian graduate school or return to the united states and get my master's here? Any ideas?

Rate My magic the gathering blue/white control deck?

It really isnt that good, you have too many high mana cost creatures which makes your mana curve really bad. Not only that but most of your creatures contain double of one color which is really only good in a mono colored deck.

What do I do after I flea bomb?

There is a lot about fleas I didnt realize until I had to cats infected in an apartment. I bombed the place and yet they came back. They say fleas can infect your yard and you have to call an exterminator. I put my dishes in the refrigerator and then steam cleaned EVERYTHING! I also used a carpet powder. I wiped everything down with a towel afterwards. It really wasn't as bad as I thought it would be. Things that are really personal like your pillow I would do something different with that. I bagged up all my blankets and washed them at my parents house and put them in the dryer. I then bagged them and taped it shut for like 3 months. lol. Eventually I hate to say it but I gave up. I took my kitty back to my parents house where she was used to living anyway and took my other kitty back to the farm where we got her not long before. We still visit them I just can't keep them here in this apartment. I believe it is infected bad. Fleas can live dormant with no food for like 9 months. Bombing wont always kill the dormant ones. All I can say is good luck! My sister in law used a professional exterminator and she said that took care of her problem. She hasnt seen any fleas since.

Do you think i am justified in changing my beautician? would you have done the same?

Yes but your former person doesn't know what she did wrong and is in pain over it. Do her a favor and tell her in private.

Does a painter paint a tree, or does a painter paint a painting of a tree?

I'm working out the grammatical aspect of this conundrum. You don't paint a tree, you can only paint paintings, OF trees. Or is "a painter paints a painting of a tree" redundant?

What are your thoughts on the Casey Anthony trial?

I think its rediculous that a single case has gotten so much attention. This isn't anyone famous, it isn't a celebrity or a politician or anything like that. This is just a regular person. And there are plenty of these cases that happen all the time. Why did this one become so popular? It's a sad commentary on our society. The already blurred line between celebrity, tv 'reality' and real life reality has almost been completely erased.

Why cant my 4.7gb blank disc hold 4.7 gbs?

It has nothing to do with conversion. The video file you have is a low resolution file format. When the program converts it to DVD format (which is capable of much higher resolution), it takes a lot more space. A 716MB video file probably takes about 6GB after it's converted. There are programs that will shrink the file down to 4.3GB (by throwing away the "quality" that your file didn't have to start with, so there won't be any difference as far as you're concerned). DVDFlick is good and it's free. (It's also open source - no 5 minute limit, no watermarking, etc.) a href="http://www.dvdflick.net/" rel="nofollow"http://www.dvdflick.net//a It's not very user friendly, so a href="http://lifehacker.com/232322/hack-attack-burn-almost-any-video-file-to-a-playable-dvd" rel="nofollow"http://lifehacker.com/232322/hack-attack…/a is a little tutorial.

Outfits for the first day of a new school?

if you want to wear the shorts then wear them with white leggings, sandals and a nice tank with a light cardigan. its cute, nice and also doesn't give of the wrong impression.

How do I recover from a broken heart/ How do I believe in love again?

Okay, so I got out of a relationship with this guy and well....he just wanted my body. We didnt have sex or anything but anyway. Its been a few months and I dont feel like the love between a boy and a girl is pure and good anymore. Its tainted. The last 3 relationships Ive been in have ended up the guy wanting something or using me, so is this true? Is there still pure, innocent love? If there is, how do I recover from this feeling. I dont even wanna date anymore. A little help please?

Is it wrong to satisfy this urge?

Alot of people release anger this way. Others go off the wall and purposely look and engage fights with people in real life. Which is worse to you? As long as you distinguish that you can do it in a game, but that it is wrong to do it in real life youll be fine. Note that people watching you do this can and or will assume that you mowing down people on a game can be stepping stones to aggressive behavior in real life.

Conundrum. Discuss. Who would YOU kill?

I would kill person 2. You can't kill the female because she is needed to repopulate the earth. And Person 1 is more important that person 2 because of his intelligence. In the grand scheme of things, looks don't matter. Also, hopefully the babies of person 1 and person 3 inherit his intelligence, because when they have to mate with each other (you know, to repopulate the earth) the children are going to need all of the intelligence that they can get because their babies will have problems due to their too similar genes.

I need a dress for a funeral?

I want a dress like this a href="http://www.hollisterco.com/hol/img/collection/51038_02_900.jpg" rel="nofollow"http://www.hollisterco.com/hol/img/colle…/a , but in black and something much simplistic but similiar . Does anybody have an idea where I can get it ?

Guilty vs Not guilty?

I am wanting to know does guilty mean that yes you did do the charges and that all the charges are true and vise verse? There for not guilty means your are innocent and have done nothing wrong

Weird Fear Conundrum?

Fear is irrational and can lead to all sorts of deep rooted problems - It needs to be dealt with in a logical way - Some fear is built into you from birth.

Do you think that there is some irony in the fact that people we celebrate today, eg the founding fathers?

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Help with Public Speaking? (will give 10 points to best answer!)?

1,TRUE. 2, FALSE, 3, FALSE. 4, TRUE. 5, TRUE 6, true. 7, TRUE, 8, true. 9, TRUE. 10, TRUE, 11, TRUE. 12, TRUE. 13, TRUE. 14, TRUE. 15, TRUE. 16, TRUE. 17, TRUE. 18, TRUE. 19, TRUE. 20, TRUE. 21, FALSE. 22, FALSE. 23, F A L S E. 24, true. 25, TRUE. (11, much like in writing, one "restates the thesis") NOTE: Three of your questions are ambiguous and could be answered either way because in public speaking any good speaker knows the old "comedians tool", how to work a room. Questions 6, 8, and 24.

Blah..I don't know what to do..help?

Try to tell him that you dont mind he smokes bud but it bothers you that your not getting enough attention and appreciation as you should/like.

Now that the casey anthony trial is only a few days from the verdict...?

do you believe she is innocent or guilty? I believe she is guilty without a doubt, but im worried about whether or not the jury will agree. So what is your opinion?

What can I do to lose weight while maintaining and even increasing my strength?

Here's my conundrum (probably not unfamiliar to some); Objectively, I'm in pretty good shape. I can bench press 235 pounds, I can squat close to 400, and I can run a mile in a little under six minutes. Problem is I don't look like I can do any of those things; while I put on bulk in my legs, arms, shoulders, back, and chest really well, all of my body fat gathers around my mid-section, giving me what seems like a permanent hour glass shape to my body. I already spend more than an hour a day in the gym; lifting weights and running on the elliptical (I can't do the treadmill because I have flat feet). My diet is pretty good, but I could be more extreme with it. I'm just looking for any advice on looking better. It depresses me that I work this hard and can do all those things I listed, but I don't look remotely like I can.

Do you think she still likes me?

I have an elderly lady living on my road who I visit as much as I can. last week I paid her a visit and bought her some fruit, some croissants, and smoked salmon. just this evening, I called her to see how she's doing. she has lost quite a bit of her eyesight. after a few minutes she said to me quite aggressively, "Don't ever buy me smoked salmon again - it had plastic in between it and it nearly killed me!!" so I said "don't worry, I won't buy it for you again". I can understand that she was aggravated by the incident and most natural to blame the source she got it from, but I was totally innocent - I didn't know there would be plastic in it when I bought it :s

My girlfriend split up with me and I still feel terrible. Advice please?

it's time to move on and try to forget about her. She is obviously not interested in a committment with you. Also, you can kiss the money goodbye. She will never pay you. Try to relax and talk to other girls. You are a nice guy, you can certainly do better.

How can I feel better?

Well if you have trust issues and your obviously dealing with low self esteem I would say talk to a professional. I would suggest seeing a therapist because they can truly help you.

I met a guy online and he wants to meet up. What should I do?

I met him through facebook because we are going to the same college. We talked a little back and forth, nothing serious. Then he asked if I wanted to meet him. I was curious about seeing this guy so I agreed and we have set a date up. I know, I know. Those stories you unfortunately hear all the time about innocent young women talking to guys online then come to find out, they're not who they said they were. And that's exactly what I'm trying to avoid. A close friend suggested making it a group thing just to be safe, but my friends tell me this is a bad idea and they're not comfortable with it at all. So should I cancel the date and avoid this guy on campus or should I bring my friends and risk the fact that this could be a guy trying to take advantage of me?

What do I do if I live with people who are violent and bipolar when they cant get drugs?

Drugs is such a big part of there lives which highly imposes on everyones lives. There totally getto but say they are innocent. Meanwhile totally bipolar from physical dependence. I am just a guest in this house but I try to prevent drugs from ruling everyone. I would leave but some good people need me more than they know. If I leave, there will be noone decent left here. I am hated by everyone and my life has been just give give give and no thanks or respect.

Do you think she still likes me?

I have an elderly lady living on my road who I visit as much as I can. last week I paid her a visit and bought her some fruit, some croissants, and smoked salmon. just this evening, I called her to see how she's doing. she has lost quite a bit of her eyesight. after a few minutes she said to me quite aggressively, "Don't ever buy me smoked salmon again - it had plastic in between it and it nearly killed me!!" so I said "don't worry, I won't buy it for you again". I can understand that she was aggravated by the incident and most natural to blame the source she got it from, but I was totally innocent - I didn't know there would be plastic in it when I bought it :s

If you get a speeding ticket after you've slowed down and get pulled over much later are you innocent?

i got pulled over for a speeding ticket after i slowed down; the cop made a U-turn to come after me. However. I stopped at a red light a block later with the cop right behind me, and his lights still haven't flashed to pull me over. after the light turned green i proceeded; still with the cop behind me, and a half block later he finally pulled me over to right me a speeding ticket. could this be fought in court to prove i am innocent? ( he also did not show me any proof that i was going past the speed limit ) PLEASE HELP!

Can you tell who has night jobs, I'm off tonight by the way, by the answers and thumbs?

Not really, but I can tell when school is on summer break by the amount of really dumb questions and answers here late at night.

Question for cyber school students! 10 points!?

I'm going on my 3rd year of cyber school. At the beginning they gave me a laptop. Its an older one. So I've had it fcor almost 3 years. Lately my laptops been shutting off randomly and doesn't hol a charge. Today my laptop stopped charging all together. Its not the charger because I got a new one and its still having the problem. Will the school send me a new one? Would I have to pay for it?

How to wear with this dress in Winter/almost Spring (from Hollister, picture here)?

i'd go with some red strappy sandals, no stockings, hair up in a ponytail, and some diamond studs in your ears. makeup, your on your own ok.(i've dressed you for summer, hope u like it.)

I had my first kiss...?

someone just told me that if your going to kiss someone .. one person will face to the left and the other one to the right ..then kiss ... I hope you can get my point ...:)) .. I suggest not to do it on school or any pubic places ... you can do it at home or any private places ..

Did I get a good deal? Spent $50 got 3 pieces of clothing?

yeah , after all its abercrombie and it looks like you got the items on sale, so i think its a good deal seeing how expensive thier clothes are.

Help! i dont know whats wrong with me.. am i abnormal?

ok so all of my friends have boyfriends and im the only one that doesnt. i went out with one guy and all we did was peck. im single for like a year and all of my friends have guys all over them. and they are still single! help! please what do i do. am i ugly or something? im so depressed. i guess im kinda considerd innocent because well i havent had any reall serious bfs... but im not! and all my friends think i am... i was the 1st on out when we played ten fingers... what do i do.. im really sad and when i see couples holding hands it makes me want to cry or shoot something. am i ugly? what can i do to fix it?

What are the bank hol dates (uk) april, may ?

cos i heard apparantly we are gettin two 3 day weeks due to easter, royal wedding and may day ... anyone know what the dates are ?

My boyfriend is sleeping over my house soon...?

We are pretty young, I'm not gonna lie. 14 and 12 are young ages for a sleepover. But we already talked, and made sure that neither of us are interested in sex until we are BOTH over 18. We want to have a purely innocent sleepover. I already know we will end up playing video-games, since we both love to. And since it will be on the fourth of July, we are going to see some fireworks. But I'm not sure what else we can do. Did I mention that we are long-distance? We have been going out for about 2 1/2 months and known each other about 5. I could possibly show him around town or introduce him to my friends. But I'm mostly worried about what we are going to do when we are just hanging out at my house. What kinds of things can we do to entertain ourselves? (Maybe some kissing? XD) Thanks in advance.

Do you think he is still interested, just a yes or no will do, thanks?

It seems that you have answered your own question. "I've just got credit on my phone" this could be the reason why he hasn't been in touch. If he's shy then he may be like me, I was shy and still am to a certain extent and still don't know how to intiate a conversation with someone of the opposite sex, so there, many people are like this but talk a different talk to their mates or friends. Sorry you only wanted a yes or no so the answer is "Yes" Good luck

Where can I buy a table desk like this?

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What is Qhief similar to?

Okay, so everyone, on neopets where I hang out a lot I was thinking of adopting this Draik named Qhief but on the neoboards everyone is playing a game where they put Lady and the (that word) and apparently its similar to Qhief but not allowed on neopets and I don't get it... So someone tell me what it is? PLEASE. I DON'T CARE IF MY INNOCENT MIND IS TAINTED. TELL MEEEEEEEEE~!

What is the meaning of life?

I know this question has been asked many many times but I don't care, I want to ask it again. To me it is like when Apples are dipped in water they make cider. And then if a truck driver drinks the cider who is really drinking it? The Truck Driver or the Apples. We all have hopes and dreams and we all had toys when we were younger but which matters the most. It is like if I eat a sausage does that make them better than candy? Or does bacon win the day. My mind does not know, it is a conundrum and when I think about it all I can think about is the distance from the Earth to the Sun in comparison to the distance from the Earth to the Moon. And I don't know that answer but scientists do.

How can I feel better?

I think you should go to college if your not already in and focus on getting a good career and stop worrying about relationships because you've been through a lot of bad ones so try and have fun gradually talk to people and you eventually meet some good people but don't feel a need to rush into a relationship don't be like OMG I have to have 30 friends or a boyfriend because I have gone through a lot of your experiences and I just found things to do that made me happy and focused on the important things in life career goals etc. and I know a lot of people but I only really have 2 true friends and you will eventually find that and be happy you just gotta stay positive and it will all come naturally you don't have to completely open up to people but you have to try and talk a little if you want friends, start slow and gradually build up and after a while you will be able to tell who is sincere and who is really not your friend.

Can you help me with this please?

I would point blank ask him. Of course, I'm not the type to mince words either. You won't know unless you ask him or get strung along for another week, and then another week. You decide.

How do I reconnect the heater or heater core to my Honda 1989 CRX? It was unplugged by a mechanic years ago.?

Years ago I was experiencing some leakage on the front passenger side floor (where the passenger's feet would be) in my Honda 1989 CRX. After taking it to a few mechanics this leak proved to be more of a conundrum than anticipated. One of the mechanics decided to disconnect the heating system to see if that was causing the leak issue. After a while the leak was still there but since we were experiencing warm weather and I didn't have to drive the car on a regular basis I never went back to get the heating system reconnected. Now I have to drive my CRX on the daily and am freezing at most times in the vehicle. I've checked for any leakage in the car (passenger side floor) and haven't seen excess moisture even after all this rain we've had. If someone could give me some pointers on how to reconnect the heater, and any ideas as to what might have caused the leakage it would be very much appreciated. Thank you!!!!

My ex girlfriend and I got in contact after 2-3 months, should I try and get her back?

Move along! She has some real issues that will drag you down too. Go find the right person or enjoy your freedom to meet new and different people. You should think highly enough to say "Hey you had your chance and you blew it!" and move on to some one who will appreciate you!

Which is more important to Republicans? The fetus or the baby?

Abortion is not something that should be banned. But the truth about the sordid act should not be covered up or sugar coated to make it easier to do. Lets just call it like it is. We are killing children before they have a chance to live independently of their mothers.

If i only work 3 hours on Friday am i supposed to be payed just those 3 hours or the full day (UK)?

It is a UK bank holiday and am unsure whether or not i should be payed the full day...we also dont have contracts so the boss will do his up most to get out of paying what he should! Also do they have to pay us for the Royal Wedding bank hol (the following Friday)

Blackberry Playbook vs iPad 2?

Hi.I would HIGHLY recommend getting the Blackberry Playbook.It is an awesome device and outbeats the ipad.

What is Qhief similar to?

Okay, so everyone, on neopets where I hang out a lot I was thinking of adopting this Draik named Qhief but on the neoboards everyone is playing a game where they put Lady and the (that word) and apparently its similar to Qhief but not allowed on neopets and I don't get it... So someone tell me what it is? PLEASE. I DON'T CARE IF MY INNOCENT MIND IS TAINTED. TELL MEEEEEEEEE~!

Self loathing and self harm.. worth seeking help?

First, get into therapy. It really does help. Second, stop worrying about pleasing others, do what makes you happy and be happy with doing the best you can. I know it sounds hard and believe me it is but it is possible to get better.